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The American Church week 7 · Proverbs 1:1-9
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge. Who is teaching the children, what they are being taught, and the difference between the two.
The heart, then the house, then the gathering. This week the last room in the household arc, and the one most people have strong feelings about before they read a word of it.
Two warnings before we open the passage, because this subject has a ditch on each side. One ditch says the schools are the problem and a different school is the solution. The other says education is neutral and the classroom is just arithmetic. Both are wrong, and the second is wrong in a more interesting way than the first.
Proverbs opens by saying what it is for: wisdom and instruction, words of insight, prudence for the simple, knowledge and discretion to the youth. Then verse seven, which is the sentence the week is built on. The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction (Proverbs 1:7).1
Beginning. Not crown, not capstone, not the religious elective bolted onto the side of a real education. The starting point.
Solomon says it twice, and the second time he says it about wisdom rather than knowledge (Proverbs 9:10), which means he is not making a narrow claim about theology class.1 He is saying that if you start anywhere else, everything downstream is built on a different foundation, and week six already established what happens to buildings whose foundation is not the one that was laid.
The neutrality claim deserves its best form before it gets an answer. Two plus two is four in a Christian school and a secular one, and a teacher who says so is not smuggling anything past anyone. Most of what a school does all day is like that: phonics, the multiplication table, the parts of a cell. A parent who demands that every lesson be a sermon will raise a child who is bad at arithmetic and suspicious of teachers, which serves nobody and least of all the child.
All of that is true, and conceding it is what makes the second ditch harder to see than the first. The answer is not that the multiplication table is secretly secular. It is that a curriculum is not a pile of facts. It decides what is worth knowing, in what order, and why any of it matters, and those are questions the multiplication table cannot answer for itself. Somebody answers them before the child walks in.
This is why the neutrality claim is the more interesting error. A curriculum that never mentions God is not a curriculum with a gap in it. It is a curriculum that has answered the first question already, in the negative, and moved on before anyone noticed a question was asked.
Now the practical half, and Moses is more specific than we usually are.
You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise (Deuteronomy 6:7).2
Count the settings. Sitting, walking, lying down, rising. That is a whole day, and not one of the four is a classroom. The instruction Moses has in mind happens at the table, in the truck, at bedtime and at breakfast.
Which answers the question this week is actually asking. Who is teaching the children? Whoever is present in those four moments.
That is a harder answer than picking a school, and it is available to every family in the room regardless of what they can afford. It also explains why a household can outsource six hours of instruction and still be the dominant teacher, and why a household can win the school argument and lose the child anyway.
Proverbs 22:6 will come up, so take it head on. Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.3
Week five did the long version of this with Joshua 24:15, so the short version here. Proverbs are proverbs. The book signals its own genre by putting two opposite instructions side by side: answer not a fool according to his folly, and then, in the very next verse, answer a fool according to his folly (Proverbs 26:4-5).4 A book that does that is not handing out contracts. It is handing out wisdom, which has to be applied rather than cashed.
There is a translation question underneath it too. The Hebrew reads according to his way, and readers have long argued whether that means the way he ought to go or the way he is naturally bent.3 Either reading is a description of skilled parenting. Neither one is a warranty.
Paul writes to Ephesus with instruction for households, and the sentence addressed to fathers begins with a prohibition. Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4).5
The order matters. Before the positive command, a negative one, and the negative one is about the father's temper rather than the child's behavior.
A man can be doctrinally correct, catechize faithfully, choose the school carefully, and provoke his children into hating every word of it. Paul evidently thought that was likely enough to warn about first.
Which brings the week to its point. There is a difference between what the children are being taught and what they are learning, and the second is mostly caught rather than delivered.
Paul tells Titus to show himself in all respects a model of good works (Titus 2:7).6 Not to teach about good works. To be the exhibit.
Ecclesiastes says remember your Creator in the days of your youth (Ecclesiastes 12:1), and Paul tells Timothy that he has known the sacred writings from childhood, having watched them in his mother and grandmother before he could read them (2 Timothy 3:14-15).7
The sin this hits is not neglect. It is inconsistency, which children detect faster than adults do and which teaches more reliably than any lesson. A child raised on a Bible his father does not obey learns exactly what he was shown, which is that the words are for saying.
The fear of the LORD is where knowledge begins, and no child arrives with it. Neither did we.
Christ is the one who lived the perfect life we could not live, including the part of it that happened inside a household, submissive to a mother and a father in a town with a bad reputation (Luke 2:51).8 He then died the death we had earned and rose again, and the debt was paid in full with nothing left for us to add. A parent's teaching does not add to it and a parent's failure does not subtract from it.
God chooses, and the Father draws. Salvation is his work from start to finish; we receive it, we don't author it, and neither will our children. Which is the reason a Christian education is worth everything it costs and is still not a mechanism. We teach because we were told to, in four settings across an ordinary day, and the growth belongs to the one who gives it.
Scripture is our final authority here too, and it judges our schooling arguments along with everything else. If the text says the formation happens at the table and in the truck, then the table and the truck are where the argument should be spent.
starts.
in your house right now, and which is empty?
instruct. What does that suggest he had seen?
first question, what is the honest response, and what is the panicked one?
Next class: the watchman who sees the sword coming, and whether the parallel to our own moment holds.